It is very disappointing that Governor Kathy Hochul has agreed to sign Assisted Suicide into law in New York State. You have joined me in opposing this heinous bill with your calls, letters, and attempts to educate your family and friends about the danger of this bill to the vulnerable across our state. Thank you.
Unfortunately, now that the bill will become law, our job is harder. Rather than try to convince a couple hundred legislators and a governor to vote it down, we need to up the ante to make sure that New Yorkers do not choose this form of death – especially those in our own circles. The best way for us to do that is to be watchful of the needs of the people in our life who are suffering.
In Oregon, where assisted suicide has been legal longest, their health department publishes a report each year listing the reasons why people choose the suicide drugs. If we are watchful of those attitudes in the people around us, we can nullify their need to make that choice.
Over the last four years, 89-91% of people choosing the lethal drugs did it because they were concerned about losing autonomy. That happens to all of us as we age or when we become disabled. 42-48% were concerned about being a burden to their family, friends/caregivers. Both of these concerns can be relieved by showing empathy, love, and respect. Back when my husband was dying, the hospice home care nurse would end each visit by saying, “It was an honor to care for your husband.” When we approach the people in our communities with that attitude, they will feel respected and validated. Let us look at our vulnerable neighbors in that way.
The big heart-tugging argument that supporters of the bill claim is that we shouldn’t allow people to be in pain. Pain specialists and palliative care doctors and nurses will tell you that there are very few people whose pain they cannot relieve. Unfortunately, many suffering patients get their pain meds from their surgeons or general practitioners who do not adequately understand pain management. Help your loved ones find a qualified pain management specialist and that will make all the difference in their quality of life – and help them live out their life fully until its natural end.
Scripture: This week, read Romans 12:10. What is it saying to you?
Call to Action: Stay attuned to the people in your life who are suffering and help give them a reason to live.
